This, my, friends is a very HEATED argument over a pic one of my friends posted on her Facebook account. This pic was a nice family picture at Easter. The characters involved? Me (of course)..Walter (her ex-boyfriend for reasons you will very soon read) and Alicia, who, poor thing, doesn't get involved.
I include this on my personal space because I am deeply disturbed by this individual and his demented, narcisistic way of thinking. It is exactly what is wrong with our male dominated society and what is wrong with self esteem problems. He also demonstrates complete disrespect for me and my opinions. He ego takes over the entire account, as does his need for complete control.
What infuriates me is that these people exist and are giving others the idea that they don't have a place in society unless they are pursuing perfection, instead of embracing each other's flaws. This is what makes us all unique and different. Am I pursuing a healthy lifestyle? Yes. Am I pushing it on other people so I can feel validated? Absolutely not. Everyone has a right to their own decisions and everyone has a right to respect.
So this is what I say: Read the argument and weigh in.
And this argument is HEATED...Again HEATED. Read with caution...And hydrate appropriately.
awwww... how cute,I can tell you lost weight..... your sister looks nice too!
Who cares about your weight?!?!? You are HOTT no matter how you are..And,girl, you HOTT!
She cares about her weight, and her health...as everyone should !!!..... she is doing a show next year in April so we are keeping track......
The fact that you brought up her weight in a picture is so stereotypical. And feeds right into our society focusing on women and their image. Maybe it should be Alicia keeping track of her own health plan, as it is empowering. I should know. I am at the gym 6 days a week and it's people like you who infuriate me to no end.
HEELOO I brought it up cuz she is doing a show,hheellooooo and me and Lou and helping her train. Obviously the image us healthy people are giving out is not working, if we are the most unhealthiest and fattest nation in the world...so its obviously not working... People like me? People like me are the ones that help motivate you and keep you in ... Read Moretrack, we are your inspiration...... so sweetie dont open you mouth without knowing whats going on... you didnt know she was doing a show and you didnt know that I am training her along with a friend.... and you girls say that im giving that bad image....im trying to give you life and health by teaching you how to love yourself, loving yourself first is the only way to learn how to love others
sshhhhhh shhhhh not another word....thats a wrap, end of subject,,,shhhhh what did I say...shhhhhh LOL
did you get hurt? I don't think walter did
Walter you are inspiration to me and Alicia.. Did we tell you we love you? Thanks for keeping us on track :) I didn't want to jump in this mess but i wasn't going to let some ignorant people tag team you.. Oh and Alicia can't wait to see you Saturday sweetie. Hope your having a great day at work :P
I dont mean to come like this sweetie, but ignorance makes me angry.... we are willing to tell people to stop drinking... Read More , to stop smoking, to stop doing drugs, but God forbid we tell someone to take care of their health, workout, and eat right.... no thats is just wrong, come on people...open your eyes.... sugar (carbs ) is a drug, when your body gets it , it wants more.... thats the craving you get, you have to control that and take charge of your life.. always make time for your health, your family and for God.
I am very nice to her...she is a great friend , and I want her to take charge in this part of her life !
Im willing to help you to, con ese clase cuerpo que tenias.... so you can get it back.
This is exactly why you are her EX, Walter. Your MOUTH. And your UNHEALTHY obsession with your weight, looks and image. And what other people look like. It's sad, really. All you have is your obsession with the gym and working out. NOTHING UPSTAIRS. Alicia is a smart, extremely intelligent woman who can take charge of her own body. Good for her ... Read Morefor asking you for help since that's all you do. And making comments about me? Heck no. You don't even know me and what I'm about, sweetie. What do you have to show for your life, Walter? A few Spanish phrases and big muscles? Good for you, man. Good for you.
That's right Raza ignorant and unhappy people!
I definitely wouldn't consider myself ignorant, if I am who you are speaking about. I do know what I am talking about when it comes to fitness. I spend 1.5 hours hard core in the gym 6 days a week and my husband has a degree in nutrition...So I definitely am not in the dark. Definitely not an expert, but I do care about my body. And unhappy?? ... Read MoreMaybe some days when I don't get enough sleep after chasing around my 1 year old and my 3 year old. BUt no, I am a happy and fulfilled person. What gets me upset is when people have only one mind set and are militant and hurt people in the process.
sweetie you really must have a problem with your weight if it hurst that bad, like they say the truth hurts.... obessed? sweetie this is my job, Im going for my PRO card this Nov...to be a Professional bodybuilder.. so its my Profession.....yeah you heard it , national this Nov... so I have plenty to show....and the money will pour down as a PRO... Read More...... thats what I have to show for it.... .you have to practice what you preach and you have to look the part...so you can have an many degrees but if you dont look that part your input has no merit...... because its about disipline you cant teach it if you dont practice it yourself...... You were the one that started talking without knowing what was going on..... so before you say something check your sources first....and know what you are talking about....
Raza tell her how much we are are going to make as Pro... more money she has seen all her life LOL ! magazine, movies, guest appearces. get a sponsor and travel all over the world... yes that the life of PRO sweetie... My little bro is going to be in musclemag this Nov..(big magazine), and I was offered a movie part.... hmmmm nothing to show for... Read More.... sweetie go back to your stressfull desk job and let us Future Pros have fun with life...dont worry we will have fun for you !
All I was doing was trying to help her to give her 10 + years of experince as a personal trainer and Nationally ranked bodybuilder. So how can you put me down when I am just trying to help...wow you are drepressed when you have nothing else to do than to talk about about a good guy that is helping her out for FREE when I would charge 40 dollars an hour.... this is done...try to reply if you can... but do you really have anything to say...lol naw I didnt think so.... LMAO
All I was doing was trying to help her to give her 10 + years of experince as a personal trainer and Nationally ranked bodybuilder. So how can you put me down when I am just trying to help...wow you are drepressed when you have nothing else to do than to talk about about a good guy that is helping her out for FREE when I would charge 40 dollars an hour.... this is done...try to reply if you can... but do you really have anything to say...lol naw I didnt think so.... LMAO
LOL...Yeah..So what you're going to be body building when you're 50,60,70? And a problem with my weight? omg. seriously. I don't think a size 2 is a problem. And sweetie? I was commenting about how Alicia looks great..You are the one who got nasty and started answering for her. I think it's great to be concerned with one's health and wellness, but ... Read Morethere is a line. You are just one of those bitter meat heads who have to lift weights because you can't handle anything else. Your brain is incapable.
Ummmm..Yeah. I'm done with you. You're ego is too big for any computer. And honey, I don't have to work because my husband is graduating a doctor. I don't have a desk job. I work when and with who I want to.
And Walter? I met you once and totally don't remember you ever being like this. Too bad you've changed.
And Walter? I met you once and totally don't remember you ever being like this. Too bad you've changed.
Wow is all I can say
again check your sources and do your homeworks, once we retired after 10 -15 years, we invest our money into our own supplement company or magazine.... all the supplement you see at the health stores, those companys are own by Pro bodybuilders honey.... do your homework... even become a promoter for shows, a judge or something of that nature and ... Read Moreyou still can makre a great great living doing something I love..... still traveling all over the world.... some have even gone in to doing movies full time... so there is alot alot of options once you retire...... anything else hun...come on give it up .... This is Walt you are messing with LMAO.... a nutritionist is not a doctor honey.........im actually in plans of doing that as well.... would like to open my own full gym for unscale and professional atheletes.....using my name as a Pro bodybuilder and nutritionist...but thats is when I retire
Alicia, you know ****** is doing that as well he is going back to school partime to be a nutritionist... while being a pro.... Are you coming to his show the NY PRO in NY May 16th... we will get back stage passes ....he is going to make splash his rookie year... the boy is already making over $200k in his first year ...wow
Ummm.never said a nutritionist was a doctor. My husband is a doctor who holds also a physical therapy degree and a business degree...as well as a nutrition degree. He works in partner with Gold's Gym..You've heard of them right? Yeah. thought so. You're an angry person, Walter. Riod rage, I suppose.
All natural honey, would never touch that stuff.....and I am very laid back guy...but when someone makes a comment that makes no sense because they dont know what I was reffering to when I was talking about alicia, then yes I get mad.... you had no idea I was helping her get ready,...but yet you had to say your piece.... good maybe one day he can work for me...lol
again next time think before you speak........im giving her motivation, making her diet plan, and workout plan...so you check pics to see the progress......from time to time... because pics dont lie....the scale does but pics do not.... so you are the one thats should feel bad for budding her nose in something that is not your business..... so yes I accept your apology LOL
And, you? Are NOT a laid back guy. Anyone who jumps down another woman's throat and has no problem insulting her is NOT laid back. You have no respect for women. I was saying something nice to Alicia and you got all heated. One shouldn't value her self worth on her looks. This results in a low self esteem and the rise of the male dominated ego.
no sweetie, I have my own clients, trying to start my own business right now......so no I work for myself...... read your first coment and you tell me who started this ......
budding? is that a word? Try using some real grammar. And I apologize for nothing. Your male ego is what is wrong with today's society and how women see themselves. So as far as you "helping" Alicia. She's doing all the work, baby. Not you.
I told her she was HOTT to be exact...One does not have to be a specific weight to be considered HOTT in my book. It's the total package. If you are in the best shape ever and have a bad attitude, then you will go nowhere.
****UPDATE:::Yes...This continues, but I will not bore you into reading more into an angry, rageful person..His inner workings are that of a stunted teenager as we all can bring ourselves back to high school and remember that jock in the middle of the cafeteria yucking it up with his groupies. Where is that jock now, I ask? Yeah. He reached his peak..Or still has his head in the clouds with this deluded idea that he is still the greatest thing going.
*********I also appreciate all of your emails and letters of support and outrage. I'm glad I've got my posse behind me.
***But beware::::He just MAY BE lurking at a gym by you...Waiting to pounce with his bicepts that he so lovingly kisses each night to sleep. Pick your trainers wisely..Someone who is uplifting to the mind, body AND soul. And someone who is stable, please.
I don't think it's a fair argument... I mean... he doesn't even know the definition of some words! How can you argue when you don't know what the word means?!
Posted by: Caitlin F | April 23, 2009 at 01:26 PM
When I picture someone named Walker, I image Jeff Dunham's cranky, bushy-eyed old man puppet with that cringe on his face, NOT A BODY BUILDER. Therefore, it is hard to take his side of the argument seriously... hmmmm....
Posted by: Caitlin F | April 23, 2009 at 01:30 PM
wow i thought bodybuilding went out of style in the 80s....and man that is one *secure* dude...being all "yeah, tell 'em how much we'll be pullin' in....$200k in the first year!"...dude sounds like a rap star wannabe...if he was as laid back as he claims, he wouldn't have wasted a ton of time and misspelled words on an argument with his ex gf's friend. just shows what a douche he is. that's my 3 cents.... :)
Posted by: krysten | April 24, 2009 at 06:50 PM
You get into more trouble on facebook than anyone else I know! :)
Posted by: Kickin' | April 29, 2009 at 11:09 AM